Most everyone in my family knows that pulling Connor out of school was not an easy decision and certainly not one we made lightly. Most everyone in my family also knows that I'm a tidge OCD (in the same way that the Nile is a small creek) and that I tend to obsess over just about every little thing. Tonight I spoke with an uncle that did nothing but question *everything* we're doing--and not in a constructive way, either. It was insulting, and I told him so about 10 minutes into our conversation.
I know that two cousins on my mom's side of the family are disapproving (one is a psychologist and thinks my kids are going to be "socially inept", the other is her sister). But really, I didn't expect any problems from anyone on my dad's side. Seeing as how this is the third person on my dad's side I've now had to explain myself to, I'd say I was incorrect in my assumptions. ;P
On Bill's side, I know that his dad and wife are supportive, as is SIL Teresa. I honestly don't know how anyone else feels about it and possibly won't until we go back to visit.
And here's why this is really getting to me: I was prepared to defend myself to strangers and friends. But I really thought that most people in the families realized that we've struggled with school from the very beginning. I also thought they knew me well enough to know that I'm not going to do a half-hearted job. This is my kids' education--there is very little I take more seriously than that. I suppose it would feel different if it were honest curiosity instead of an attack. *sighs* Would it help them to know that I had many sleepless nights while worrying that I wasn't prepared? That I spent countless hours researching curriculum (and still do)? That we have done more handwriting/grammar/math in the past 8 weeks than he did from August 15th until January 25th? (I know this because those books got sent home with him when we pulled him out...)
Irony? I skipped the part of the book ("Take a Deep Breath, You Can do This") about dealing with skeptical family members and went straight to the part on defending yourself to strangers and friends. *lol* Yeah...I'm going to dig it out tonight. No one's catching me off guard again, dammit! ;)
